A Weekday Wedding
Like I may have mentioned before, our budget is on the lower side. Just compared to the national average. One of the venues we're most interested in doesn't have any Saturdays available in April or May, our target months. So, what do we do about it?
Well, I guess the title of this post gives it away. We're thinking about a wedding on a weekday. Probably a Monday. The difference in price between a Saturday and a weekday at this venue is $3,500. That's a lot of cheddar.
I have to admit, the idea makes me a little nervous. Mostly because it means asking all of our guests to take potentially two days off work at least. We would have the weekend before off for traveling to arrive. When I voiced my worries to Mr. Wolf, he insisted that these people care about us and that they would mostly be able to do it. I guess I'm looking too hard from the perspective of finances, that a couple of days if we tell them well ahead of time isn't that much to ask. My anxiety doesn't believe people like me that much. The primary feature of mental illness is that it makes your brain negatively lie to you.
That's really the only thing that concerns me. Just for me, I don't care about Monday or any other day. I just hope everyone will still be there. Because I worry.
Well, I guess the title of this post gives it away. We're thinking about a wedding on a weekday. Probably a Monday. The difference in price between a Saturday and a weekday at this venue is $3,500. That's a lot of cheddar.
I have to admit, the idea makes me a little nervous. Mostly because it means asking all of our guests to take potentially two days off work at least. We would have the weekend before off for traveling to arrive. When I voiced my worries to Mr. Wolf, he insisted that these people care about us and that they would mostly be able to do it. I guess I'm looking too hard from the perspective of finances, that a couple of days if we tell them well ahead of time isn't that much to ask. My anxiety doesn't believe people like me that much. The primary feature of mental illness is that it makes your brain negatively lie to you.
That's really the only thing that concerns me. Just for me, I don't care about Monday or any other day. I just hope everyone will still be there. Because I worry.
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